
Wise mind
My feeling and thinking brain together

Observe
Notice what I see, hear and feel

Belly breathing
Slow breaths into my tummy

STOP skill
Pause, make space, notice, then choose

Cold water
Cool my face to calm my body fast

Ride the wave
Big feelings rise, then fall

Opposite action
When a feeling doesn't fit, try the opposite

Look after my body
Sleep, food and moving keep me steady

Do something fun
Build happy moments every day

Ask for what I need
Say it clearly, kindly and calmly

Be kind
Listen, be gentle, show I care

Respect myself
Stick to my values and be fair
DBT skills cards for kids
MindfulnessDistress toleranceEmotion regulationInterpersonal effectiveness
DBT-informed skills adapted for children from Linehan (2015), DBT Skills Training Manual, 2nd ed. Not the full DBT-C or DBT-A programme

Do an activity
Play, draw or build something

Help someone
Doing something kind shifts my mood

Think of something else
Count, name colours or sing a song

Push it away for now
Put the worry on a shelf for later

Strong sensation
Hold ice or squeeze something

Different feeling
Watch or read something funny

Sight
Look at something I love

Sound
Listen to calm music

Smell
Smell something nice

Taste
Slowly enjoy a snack

Touch
Hold something soft

Movement
Rock, swing or stretch
DBT skills cards for kids: Distract and self-soothe
Distress toleranceSelf-soothe with the senses
DBT-informed skills adapted for children from Linehan (2015), DBT Skills Training Manual, 2nd ed. Not the full DBT-C or DBT-A programme
More free printables
- Size of the problem scale
How big is my feeling?
1
Tiny problemI can fix it on my own2
Small problemI can fix it with a little help3
Medium problemI need a grown-up's help4
Big problemI need help straight away5
Huge problemAn emergency: get help now - Coping skills choice board for kids
Jump it outTen big star jumps
Wall pushPush the wall for ten seconds
Dance breakMove to a favourite song
Flower breathSmell the flower, blow out the candle
Bubble breathsBlow slow, gentle bubbles
Square breathingIn 4, hold 4, out 4, hold 4
Squeeze ballSqueeze tight, then let go
Cold waterSip cold water slowly
Hug a soft toyHold something cosy
Count backwardsFrom 20 down to 1
Kind self-talk"I can do hard things"
Happy placePicture a place I love - S sound articulation cards
Sun
Sock
Soap
Seal
Sandwich
Saw
Six
Soup
Sandcastle
Sofa
Salad
Sailboat - K sound articulation cards
Key
Cat
Cake
Car
Cup
Kite
Coat
Cow
Carrot
Comb
Kangaroo
Koala